Oftentimes, a student’s college/university career is one of the most defining stages in their life. It is the first time that they gain a level of independence; they move out of their parent’s home to a dorm or live with roommates off-campus and are responsible for now figuring certain things out on their own. During this time, a person is still forming, developing, and defining who they are as a person. They are still figuring out their beliefs, morals, values, ethics, principles, and worldview. From my personal experience working with college students, this is a time when a lot of individuals either lose their faith or find it.
The Gift of Faith
Two of the Divine Attributes or names of Allah are al-Raḥmān and al-Raḥīm, which people translate in several different ways. Some translate it as the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful. Others have translated it as the Lord of Mercy, the Giver of Mercy. Some others translate it as the All-Merciful, the Very Merciful. All of these translations revolve around the concept of raḥmah, or mercy. The divine mercy of Allah is something absolutely amazing. It is nothing like human mercy -human mercy is finite and limited. The mercy of Allah is infinite and limitless. His mercy encompasses every single thing in this universe. As Allah says, “My mercy encompasses all things.” [Surah ‘A’raf:156]
The Prophet said, “Allah has one hundred mercies, out of which He has sent down only one for jinn, mankind, animals and insects, through which they love one another and have compassion for one another; and through it, wild animals care for their young. Allah has retained ninety-nine mercies to deal kindly with His slaves on the Day of Resurrection.” [Muslim, k. al-tawbah, b. fī siʿah raḥmatillah wa annaha sabaqat ghaḍabahu, 2752]
Through this infinite divine mercy, Allah is constantly showering us and favoring us with unique blessings. At every single moment of our lives, from the time we wake up in the morning, until the time we go to bed at night, and even while we’re sleeping, we are enjoying some sort of blessing from Allah . Allah tells us, “And whatever blessing you have, it is from Allah.” [Surah An-Nahl:53].
The amount of blessings we have in our lives are innumerable; they can’t be counted or quantified, let alone even imagined.
“And He gave you from all you asked of Him. If you try to count the blessings of Allah, you would not be able to do so. Indeed, mankind is [generally] most unjust and ungrateful.” [Surah Ibrahim:34].
Just take the human body as an example; our eyes and ability to see, our ears and our ability to hear, our hands and the ability to touch and feel, the tongue and the ability to taste. In every single limb, bone, muscle, vein, and cell are countless blessings of Allah
Out of all of these amazing and unimaginable blessings that we are constantly enjoying, the single greatest blessing that any of us has been given is that of īmān, or faith. It is invaluable and priceless; it is the most precious thing we possess. A lot of us may not recognize or realize the real value of this gift; we take it for granted. One of the reasons why many of us take it for granted is because it’s something that we didn’t have to struggle for. There was no time, energy, money, or sacrifice required for our faith. We were born with it. Ask those who had to struggle and sacrifice in order to be Muslim; those who searched for the truth and went through difficulties in becoming and being a Muslim. Their perception, understanding, and appreciation for īmān is very different from those who were simply born as Muslims.
What is Faith?
In order for us to appreciate something, to recognize its value, we have to understand what it truly is. What exactly is īmān? Īmān isn’t a simple concept; it’s multi-faceted. It has several aspects to it. The first and most important is this firm belief in our hearts in the existence and oneness of Allah and that Muhammad is His last and final Messenger. What is meant by belief in our hearts is knowing and recognizing this as the truth and accepting it.
We then express this belief in our hearts with our tongues by declaring and testifying, “We bear witness that there’s nothing worthy of worship except Allah and that Muhammad is His servant and Messenger.”
This faith then expresses itself through our speech and behavior. Meaning, our speech and behavior, or the way we carry ourselves and the way we interact with others, should be reflective of this faith and belief. Everything we do should be an expression of our īmān. It is supposed to play a role in every single aspect of our lives.
In the Quran and ḥadīth, īmān is compared to a tree, specifically a date palm. Allah says,
“[Prophet], do you not see how God makes comparisons? A good word is like a good tree whose root is firm and whose branches are high in the sky, yielding constant fruit by its Lord’s leave- God makes such comparisons for people so that they may reflect.” [Surah Ibrahim:24-25]
Our īmān is being compared to a date palm tree. The roots of the tree represent our firm unshakeable belief in the existence and oneness of Allah and that Muhammad is His last and final Messenger. The trunk of the tree is our verbalizing and vocalizing this belief through the kalimah. The branches are our actions. Similarly, the Prophet said, “Īmān has seventy some odd branches. The highest is the statement ‘there is no God worthy of worship except Allah’, and the lowest is removing harm from the path. And modesty is a branch of Īmān” [Muslim, k. al-īmān, b. bayān ʿadad shuʿab al-īmān…, 35]
Īmān is how we worship Allah , our character, how we speak to others, how we treat our parents, siblings, and relatives. Īmān is how we do business, how we drive on the freeway, and how we park during Friday prayers. How we carry ourselves at work and on campus is also īmān. It is the single most important blessing given to us by Allah . And that is why it is so important for us to have a deep understanding of what it truly is.
Cyclical Nature of Faith
Faith is not some abstract concept, some intangible that can’t be touched; it’s not some emotion. Rather, our faith is something that is living and organic; it can be felt and seen. Part of that experience is that we feel our faith going through cycles; sometimes it’s very strong and at other times it feels very weak. Īmān goes up and down and it’s natural to feel this. This is a feeling that was experienced by the Companions as well.
Ḥanẓalah narrates, “Once we were with the Prophet ﷺ when he delivered a sermon. Our hearts became tender, our eyes were flowing with tears, and we realized where we stood. I left the Prophet and returned home. I sat with my wife and children and cracked jokes with my wife and I felt the effect of the Prophet’s sermon had completely vanished from my heart. At that moment it occurred to me that I wasn’t what I had been and I said to myself, “O Ḥanẓalah! You’re a hypocrite.”
I was overcome with sorrow and sadness so I left my house repeating these words, “Ḥanẓalah has become a hypocrite.” On my way I met Abū Bakr so I said to him, “Ḥanẓalah has become a hypocrite.” He said, “Glory be to Allah! What are you saying? Ḥanẓalah can never be a hypocrite.”
So I explained to him that whenever I’m with the Prophet ﷺ and listen to him speak about heaven and hell, I feel as if both are present before my own eyes. When I go home and become occupied with my family I completely forget about the hereafter.
After hearing this Abū Bakr said, “I feel the exact same thing.” So they both went to the Prophet ﷺ. Ḥanẓalah said, “O Messenger of Allah! Ḥanẓalah has become a hypocrite.” The Messenger of Allah ﷺ asked, “Why is that?” He said, “O Messenger of Allah! When we are with you and you talk to us about Paradise and Hell, it is as though we can see them right before our eyes. But when we leave you and we become occupied with our wives, children, and livelihoods we forget much.” The Prophet ﷺ consoled them and said, “By Him who controls my life! If you could keep that state that you have when you are with me, the Angels would greet you when you walk and when you go to bed. But, O Ḥanẓalah! There is a time (for worship) and there is a time for worldly engagements).” He ﷺ said this three times [ Muslim, k. al-tawbah, b. faḍl dawām al-dhikr wa al-fikr fī umūr al-ākhirah…, 2750].
This is a very instructive incident from the life of the Prophet ﷺ highlighting several beneficial points of guidance, lessons, morals, and reminders. I want to focus on the fact that the Companions of the Prophet -the best human beings to walk on the face of this earth after the Prophets and Messengers– also experienced the ups and downs of īmān. They went through the exact same struggles that we do in terms of our faith and relationship with Allah ﷻ. The Prophet ﷺ consoled and comforted them; he reassured them that this was perfectly normal and part of human nature. What makes the case of Ḥanẓalah and the other Companions unique is that they had this genuine concern for the health of their īmān; they were concerned about their relationship with Allah ﷻ. We are also going to experience the ups and downs of faith and we should have that same genuine concern as well. We should feel a sense of uneasiness and discomfort when we notice that our īmān is going through a dip and work on bringing it back up.
Nurturing and Protecting our Faith on Campus
Returning to the metaphor of īmān as a tree or a date-palm, every single tree needs some type of nourishment for survival. It needs water and minerals from the soil. If it doesn’t receive nourishment then the tree will dry out and eventually die. Similarly, our faith needs nourishment. The nourishment of our faith is beneficial knowledge, acts of worship, contemplation, and reflection. That’s why the Prophet ﷺ would tell his companions, “Renew your faith.” They asked, “How do we renew our faith?” He ﷺ replied, “By saying ‘There is no god worthy of worship except Allah’.” In order to nurture, develop, and strengthen our faith I would advise the following:
1. Keep Good Company
Whether we recognize it or not, our environment has a very powerful impact upon our lives. It affects our mindset, attitude, speech, behavior, character, and beliefs. The Prophet ﷺ said, “A person is upon the way of life of their close friend, so be careful who you choose as a close friend.” [Tirmidhī, k. al-zuhd, 2378]. Join the MSA/MSU on campus and surround yourself with individuals who share the same beliefs, morals, ethics, values, and principles.
2. Maintain Your Five Daily Prayers
The importance and significance of prayer and its relation to our faith cannot be overemphasized. It is the most important act of worship that we are required to do. No matter what happens, make sure to pray your five daily prayers on time regularly and consistently. Ideally, perform them in congregation with other students on campus. Prayer is a light that guides us to the path of success. It illuminates hearts and minds, lighting the path to guidance and righteousness. It has a profound spiritual effect upon us.
3. Seek Beneficial Knowledge
There are several verses of the Quran and aḥādīth that describe the virtues, rewards, and blessings associated with seeking knowledge. These verses and narrations are designed to create a sense of zeal, motivation, and enthusiasm for spending time, energy, and effort in the pursuit of knowledge. Find a local class or study circle and attend it regularly. Spend some time weekly learning about Allah ﷻ. The best way to nurture a deep love for Allah ﷻ is by learning about Him through His Divine Names and Attributes.
4. Read Quran Daily
The Quran is a book of guidance. It contains guidance for every single aspect of human life. It contains a detailed explanation of what humanity needs in terms of guidance, success both in this life and the next and salvation. Allah ﷻ says, “This revelation is no fabrication: it is a confirmation of the truth of what was sent before it; an explanation of everything; a guide and a blessing for those who believe.” [Surah Yusuf:111]. It should be treated as a personal guidebook: a roadmap towards faith, practice, morality, ethics, God-consciousness, obedience, worship, paradise, and essentially the Divine. One should take the time to read, reflect and ponder over the meanings of the verses and then internalize their message through practice. “We have made it easy to learn lessons from the Quran: will anyone take heed?”
5. Have a Regular Practice of Dhikr
Dhikr is considered to be the nourishment of hearts, the connection between a person and their Lord. It is something that brings them closer to Allah ﷻ. Just like the physical body requires nutrition to remain healthy and alive, so too does the soul. The nourishment of the soul is the remembrance of Allah ﷻ.
6. Regulate What You Consume with Your Eyes and Ears
The eyes and ears are two inroads to the heart that can have a profound impact upon its spiritual health. We should be very careful and cautious about what we consume; what we let into our eyes and ears. Our consumption of TV, movies, and music should be very controlled. Our internet usage and the amount of time we spend online should also be regulated. You can do this by sitting down and listing what boundaries you’d like to keep for a healthy spiritual state–considering what is haram and halal generally in a Muslim’s life is a great starting point. Evaluate everything you consume according to these guidelines and then hold yourself accountable. Install apps or software, unfollow or unsubscribe from certain accounts or people, and perhaps even have a trusted friend help you stay on top of your consumption.
May Allah ﷻ make īmān beloved to us, adorn our hearts with it, make disbelief, transgression, and disobedience disliked to us, and make us among the guided!
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